Snow snow go away

How much longer do we need to be in this cold, cold weather.  Seriously it is bumming me out.  I can't wait till I don't have to wear a long coat and scarf and gloves all the time.  It wouldn't be so annoying if I didn't have to take my coat and scarf and gloves off at the beginning of class and then put it back on at the end of class.  UGH! Snow, snow go away....... far far far away...... and stay away till Christmas then go away again, please.  I need summer!!!

His haunting face

This picture is one my friend did for me when I was discribing the guy in my dream.

 Its not him exactly but i do love it.  Thanks Trace!

Last night I had the strangest dream about someone I haven't seen in a long time.  I woke up startle from this dream and layed in bed with it still hovering on my mind.  I couldn't believe the rush of emotions, the pounding of my heart, and the haunting of his face when ever I closed my eyes.  I could not believe my physical reaction to seeing him once again.  It was as if I was struck by lightening.  It was like he was actually in my dream daring me feel something, to do something, to want him and need him in a way that I have never felt before.  All i saw of him in the dream was him passing by on a crowded street.  I stopped when I saw him and when he saw me staring at him he just smiled a smile as if he could read my mind and my emotions when I saw him and then he walked on and I woke up.  The bright, whiteness of his smile, his cool demenor, the piercing of his eyes still haunts my mind and my heart.  Oh to see him again in reality instead of my dreams would be perfection.  To have his lips kiss mine and his arms hold me would be heaven.  Yet here I am stuck in perpetual dullness of life and he is far away.  I do not know how to get away from his haunting face and I don't think I ever want to.

The mask

Walking along the sidewalk, in a store or any crowded place, I often find myself look at others, observing others, and the mask each of them wears.  Every mask is different.  Different colors, shapes, drawings, and designs.  They display emotions, true and false identities, or their soul.  Often what is seen is not what they really appear to be.  Angels can have hidden demons.  Darkness have the saving light.  Many do not even get to see the mask removed.  We set ourselves as who we want to be, who we want people to see us as.  Or make it so people see something they don't want to see deeper.  But really we are the masks we wear.  We display them so vibrately.  We become who we display.  We live our fantasy, our lie, until someone has the courage to ripped it off of us, exposing who we once were, the deepest part of our soul that was trapped.  That is the person who will set you free from a world of masks.  They are those you can trust, they are those who will help, they are those who will never leave.

Reflection

Well with everything that has happened, not a lot has changed.  With these changes and what has happened I have been very reflective on what has happened in my life up to this point and surprisingly when I would remember one particular moment suddenly years and years of memories have come flooding back.  I actually marveled at how much I have changed over the years and how my friends and those who I have come to rely on are so different from each other.  But also as much as I have changed my feelings towards those I have know in the past have not changed.  I still am grateful and love my friends who I met and played with at a young age, even my childhood 'loves' bring back fond and happy memories.  While reflecting on my life I wondered how I became who I am.  When I was a little girl I was very imaginative, creative and very very social  My family did not have a lot of money and I was left to come up with the fun in my life.  I could make a tree into a carwash or a shop, a shed became a house or a fort, even a pile of rocks became a castle.  Incedibly when I moved and my circumstances became better and bigger,  My imagination changed.  I suddenly had a huge tv, a huge room, a giant back yard, and video games.  I also was older and the little kids stuff was seen as babyish and immature.  As I got older the more I would relish the small child like qualities I had.  I still have my imagination and creativity.  I now adapt to new situations and new technologies with ease and because of my social nature as a child I am still very social and can find common ground with anyone.  I now realize how much my family and friends have shaped me into the women I have become and to them I am most grateful.   

The principle of the matter

There has been some talk and stuff with one of my previous blogs.  I can see how harsh it is but i stand my the principle that never apologizing what what I write and never delete what I write.  I was frustrated, angry, and upset, therefore I blogged it out.  I needed to get it out and I had my lap top so I did.    

I love it when someone exaggerates something in order to cause drama. . . . Don't you?

"All is fair in love and war"

I will never understand people who do one thing and say something else.  The other day while on facebook I was bored, waiting for a friend to be ready to go and I was chatting with some people.  I happened to click on my other friend's ex and said 'hey'.  I knew him it was no big deal.  Our conversation was seriously two seconds and that was it.  I mentioned it in passing to my friend who told my other friend and now she is mad at me for talking to her ex, like I was trying to steal him or get him or whatever, which I am not.  My old high school group of friends is ending.  We all know it is but some are trying to keep it patched up even if they know that we can't be the same as we were in high school.  People change, situations change, life changes.  Thats that.  We are not the same people we were in high school. Some of us have changed for the better, and some (I think) have changed for the worse.  Some of them think that one of my friends is dramatic and that her family craves drama, when in reality it was them who were causing most of the drama anyways. 

Well thats my rant.

A New Year with new goals

Last year was ....... well interesting to say the least.  A lot of good things happened, some very exciting but this year was no exception to disappointments, fails, depression and such.  This year I have a whole new set of goals and to do some of them I am going to have to let go of the past even if that means I let some of the people I love.  It is a sad fact but sometimes life cannot move on with out doing so.  I have to be ready for the coming years whatever they may hold for me.  This year will be a good year, full of new adventures mixed with some old ones as well. 

The real reason for the season

Recently I met a lady who really made a point on the Christmas season.  She and her family had stopped giving gifts when her kids grew up and now they go and do things as a family instead.  She said she 'doesn't have to worry about the waiting in lines, worrying about what gifts to give, and doesn't have to deal with the "me. me. me." people in this country'.  She remembers the real reason we celebrate this season and that would be the birth of God's son in this world and the miracle it was.  She also believes that it is about the other holidays of other religions as well.  We should not have to worry about offending someone by saying Merry Christmas or Happy Holidays.  We should be caring and giving instead of thinking only of ourselves.  Giving is not rushing into stores and fighting over something for someone else for Christmas.  It is not getting angry at the clerks if something is out of stock or not marked the right sale price.  It is not waking up and wanting everything you asked for.  It is the thought of the gifts, homemade or otherwise.  It is the fact that you try to think of something you know someone will love and being able to give it to them and seeing their faces light up at the sight of it.  I wish everyone in the world a Merry Christmas, Happy Holidays and a Happy New Year.  Let us try to have peace in our homes and in our lives.  Let us think of others first.  Let us try to be a better friend and neighbor to those who are less fortunate as well as a better friend in general.  Let us be kind and loving to our families.  Let us be this way not once a year but all the days of our lives.

What is going on in my head?

I feel so confused about my life.  I seem to be watching as the world go by.  I feel stuck.  Work is fine, school is fine and almost over,  socially everythings great, even perfect.  I have nothing to complain about, but yet I feel so empty and unfufilled.  I don't know whats wrong or why I feel this way.  I love my life and everyone in it.  I am not mad at anyone.  I love my friends and family and I am very grateful for them.  I can't imagine my life without them.  But again why do I feel this way?  What do I do?  Ugh!!!!